Brain Splatter

Ruining Lives

We have become a society of self defeating rules based on judgments. Turning people into the bad guy forever by making it impossible to overcome. Stigmas, labels, rules, & contempt have clouded us all. Mistakes become lifestyles & excuses become our way of life.
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Innocent Questions


I was at a yard sale today when I started talking to a boy, all of about 8, sitting in a chair quietly watching everyone. He wasn’t playing a game or on a phone. He was just sitting there, quietly & it felt sad. I started asking him about certain things for sale, and a guy walked out (I assumed was his dad).
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Look Ma No Hands

So, I came across this little story today… The groping story

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Here We Go Again

And by we, I mean me. So, those who have read my stuff, know I have 3 boys (one who is still in the process of becoming a girl). I raised all 3 on my own. I made sure I could not have any more & have been kid free for less than one year. Well…
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Let Me Explain


While this will be more of a ranting, perhaps it will answer some unasked questions. Either way, I am simply tired of holding it in.  I am a loner. I am single. And I am tired.
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Nothing Short of Beautiful


So, as I wake up on my youngest sons 21st birthday, wondering just how much alcohol his body can & will take, I see hints of Prince being dead. Within the hour, it is confirmed that Prince has died.  Continue reading “Nothing Short of Beautiful”

A Day in the Life

Well, it’s been a few since I have written & a lot has happened. First of all, I quit my job (long story there as I went in to talk to my boss & basically walked out the door for good). Then, I got hired by a place I have been really wanting to work for for a while now. That worked out. On the literal day I got the phone call that I got hired, I also got a phone call from the police in New Jersey. Continue reading “A Day in the Life”

Missing Moments


Parenthood is no easy task. We all know that. Despite our best preparations, we are thrown for many loops, twists, & turns along the way. And, just when you think you have heard, seen, or been through it all, there is more. Continue reading “Missing Moments”

It’s A Girl!

Well, it’s been a while since I posted. A lot has been happening rather quickly, and then there’s the fact that I have not been able to log in to this site every time I did get a chance & try. So, here is the latest of what’s been going on in my life…in a nutshell.  Continue reading “It’s A Girl!”

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